Dating 10 years younger guy

I have a good friend who is about a decade younger than I am. We first slept together in right after I ended a relationship with someone who was two decades my senior. And we have slept together several times since then.

Well, the age difference for one. When I am 50, he will be When I am 60, he will be -- OK, fine, you can do math, I suppose. I have several friends who have been able to make these May-December romances work out does this qualify as a May-December even? We go to the dog park and watch my dog run around and make jokes about everything and everyone. There is a lot of sexual tension and sometimes we even make note of it. We end up hanging out at his place. We give each other dating advice, reading through streams of texts and exchanges and OKCupid messages that each one of us have received and analyzing what this and that means.

I have set him up with one of my younger girlfriends because I am realistic and he goes out with one of them, and they both enjoy it, but then nothing really serious happens. Pretty soon the two of us are kissing once again. We discuss going to Vegas to get married.

We approximate the chances that we could actually have a real relationship. We decide that we definitely should not date. We are in bed together. We say how glad we are to have each other as friends and that we can be so honest about everything and not have to worry that our friendship will be ruined by dating. Having read all this over, it seems clear to me that we should date.

We have all the same interests, the same sense of humor and there is a common bond of understanding and love. Or in this case, a friendship with benefits? Forget the age difference. When I want to see him, see him. Be with him romantically if that seems right. Because no matter what happens, I do love that ours is a connection that has lasted -- and I know will last -- the test of time. Follow xojanedotcom tonight for live-tweeting during "The Bachelorette" and into the premiere of "Mistresses"!


Should I (Seriously) Date A Guy Who Is 10 Years Younger Than Me? We say we love each other. We are close friends. But is the age difference too much? We give each other dating advice, Typical Evening Dating someone younger—whether you’re two or three years his senior or are talking cougar territory—certainly can work, but being an “older woman” in a relationship does tend to come with certain perks and downfalls.

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