Dating your ex girlfriends friend

Most of the time, the new love of your life after a break up is someone else. On more seldom occasions, your next relationship is actually… with the same woman.

Sometimes, we are just not willing to let go or simply not ready to do so. But something happened which triggered a break up. It could either be a good or bad thing. Here are 7 secrets 7 men have shared with me about what actions triggered their exes to come back. Their names have been altered to protect their privacy.

I might have added certain minor elements to dramatize their stories… but the gist of the events remain intact. The most audacious of which… is 3.

Cheating was never even a topic being brought up. Maybe she took advantage of his trust. What Johnny did after that totally flipped the power in his favor. No, this is not a disappearance like those of a suspense drama flick. All he wanted to do was to have some personal time and space alone to figure things out. He is not low in self-esteem and definitely has no suicidal tendencies. If you have ever suffered from a sudden unexpected breakup, you would know that you need a little personal time to detox and flush out the toxic left in your heart.

He put his phone on silent at work. He only returned calls of a couple of best friends for short casual chats. You see, friends last forever. He stopped checking his personal email. He stopped logging into his social accounts.

This went on for about 3 weeks until he was ready to welcome the world with open arms again. He even wrote a letter for his exgirlfriend to thank her for the memories.

She was sorry and begged him to forgive her. Johnny was actually ready to move on with his life, but with a twinkle in his eye, he took her back. He is a front line banker mixing it up with a group of dynamic and attractive young team. And as you would expect, the after-hour drinking sessions are the best opportunities to seize the moment and hook up with someone you fancy at work.

Knowing how much she loved her job as a banker in her current surroundings, Alfred knew that he would be able to have her on the palm on his hand if he became the alpha male in that office. In his mind, this was like a rule in Dating And he did it! He worked doubly hard and achieved breathtaking sales numbers and became the department head. It was only a matter of time that his ex will come crawling back.

He had just received his notice of retrenchment and his overdue rental is already giving him nightmares. All that he could look forward to was the payout in the retrenchment package. He has no idea whether his job security had anything to do with the break down of the relationship. You see, his girlfriend was openly materialistic.

Not that it was something to be ashamed of. At least she was frank about it. She knew of his financial situation and had no qualms with his spendings on her. With a hunch of the reason behind her leaving him, he had to act fast. And he knew exactly what to do. He had only himself to blame if he procrastinates.

Since his is still technically employed and still holding a verified computerized pay stub, banks will use those documents for assessment of loan approvals. Once he exceeds a certain time frame, his most recent payslips will reveal that he is being let go by his employers.

So he went to a lender and borrowed the biggest quantum of loan he can qualify for based on his income. He then went on to spend lavishly on her and they both had a great couple of month. She accepted him again and the romance was reignited. He got his ex back. Jack got lucky and found new employment almost immediately. So the repayment of his loan was no problem. But he acknowledges that if he had not acted in that manner at the crucial moment, he would have lost her.

He is positive that they will get married and live happily ever after. And he has no problems with being needy. It might rise again some day and give him hell again. But if that is who she is, and he loved her, he would accept her whatever the case. He can always take another loan. Michael received a text from his girlfriend that she wants to end things between them. And she insisted that there was no way back. He had suspected something was going on behind his back since he had become more lonely on weekends compared to weekdays.

The main suspect is that seductive man who dresses like a peacock attending the same night classes as her. But the man in him told him that even if he was to lose her, it was not going to happen due to a third party. He decided to bring out the cannons. It was decisiveness at the very highest level.

As a couple, they had always flirted with the thought of dropping everything and heading off to a world tour encompassing at least 5 continents. She loved to travel and he would like to see more of the world too. So Mike replied to his now ex-girlfriend the next day saying that he had been planning for that worldwide trip for months.

In truth, he scrambled like a Chihuahua throughout the previous night to dig out all the travel information he needed. He just knew that this was the weakness in which he will launch his counter-attack.

And he was right. They dropped everything and went on an intercontinental romance for 3 months. They are now husband and wife and they are never going to break up ever again. At least until space travel becomes a novelty. Many dating coaches and experts actually laugh like they are watching SNL saying that these actions are for wimps.

Anthony is a great example of this. His relationship was 5 years in. And with both of them being active with the great outdoors, they often took a lot of pictures with the backdrops of the most beautiful sceneries you can imagine.

Anthony never thought much about the pictures. But he did purchase a collection of photo albums when it was on sale in Walmart to place their photographs in. Little did he expect the enormous impact it would make. His girlfriend wanted to break things off as she wanted to see more of the world.

Heartless… While digging through the junk, like a scene out of National Treasure, they found the photo albums lying in a carpet of dust and cobwebs. Look at the reviews!: A best selling women dating book on Amazon titled Power of the Pussy? This was a series, a whole range that some collectibles freak might pay thousands of dollars for.

It was the real deal. And they looked oddly majestic! They flipped through the pages together and unable to suppress the memories, she cried as if a spell was cast.

Well, since they are a couple of adults alone in a room, you can probably guess what occurred next. She regrets how she could have even entertained the multiple thoughts of breaking up. They lived happily ever after. James was just a kid approaching the big He had been dating a classmate since he was And you will know how dramatized and emotional relationships can be when you were younger.

We are talking about going from an A to an F! I guess this is why most people assume that love means more to women than men. Because it can take over their lives. Anyway her parents decided that the only way she was going to get her academic qualifications back on track according to the plan they laid out for her was to send her overseas to study for an month degree.

Being the obedient girl that she was, the decision was really out of her hands. She broke up with James, went off the grid, and flew off within a month.


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